Two lifelong friends have managed to keep a holiday tradition alive for decades – gifting the same Harry & David fruitcake each year to each other.
In 2004, Emanuel “E” May, now a chef at Orchard Creek in Waynesboro, started the tradition when he bought his friend Matthew “Good Work” Tapley a fruitcake for Christmas.
May said the gift was “a joke” as he thought it would be fun to re-gift the cake each year to see how long they could keep it going.
Now 19 years later, May was the recipient of the Southern Supreme old-fashioned nutty fruitcake this Christmas.
“The joke was that fruit cakes last forever, like candy corn,” May said.
Tapley said the cake is amazingly well preserved for a 19-year-old baked good. The regifting was easier when they both lived in the same city but moving seven times in nine years certainly made the commitment more challenging.
“It was much easier when we both lived in Durham but as “E” began to move around for work, it became a little bit more challenging to keep the tradition alive,” Tapley said.
As a chef, May has pretty strong feelings about fruitcake in general.
When asked if he liked the seasonal cake, May responded, while “some people love fruitcake, that’s a hard no.”
May said receiving it yet again in 2023 was both “uplifting and hilarious.”
The tradition “is symbolic of our friendship,” Tapley said.
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Crystal Graham
