The FlyLady | 11 steps for a stress-free holiday season
Every year we declare that this year we will be ready for the holidays, and every single year we find ourselves wrapping gifts or running to the grocery at the last minute.
Do you want to have a stress-free holiday? I can see you affirming this with your head nods! Well, it is not going to happen if you just sit and wish things could be different. It is going to take a little action on your part for you to have a peaceful Cruise through the Holiday.
Are you ready to look at some simple ways to keep your life calm during the holidays?
1. Crisis Clean your home with our podcast! Clear your clutter to get ready for more stuff to come into your home and keep your home maintained with your routines. http://budurl.com/iTunesCrisisCleaning
2. Pick up after yourself and follow our Holiday Cruising Missions.
3. Keep up with your holiday spending on: Food, decorations, food and travel. We have a FREE Holiday Control Journal for you to print out! www.flylady.net/images/HCJ2003.pdf
4. Stop the holiday WHINE! Commit to doing one thing eachday to prepare for the holidays.
5. Have a family meeting to discuss what traditions each member of your family loves and hates. Please listen!
6. Decorate in babysteps! Let go of your perfectionism of getting it all done at one time. Make a pleasant nightly ritual of putting one ornament on the tree or putting up one decoration.
7. Let go of the guilt and last-minute stress of making “Homemade” gifts. Start now and keep it simple.
8. Plan your holiday menus now and start buying your groceries with each visit to the grocery store. This means for your holiday baking, too! Cookies, cakes, breads and rolls.
9. Make a gift list of all you want to buy for. Establish an amount that you want to spend and stick to it. Start shopping now. Also think about “Clutter Free” Gifts. Gifts of time.
10. Set up a gift wrapping station. This consists of one roll of paper, tape, scissors, ribbon and a tag. Less is more.
11. Your family can’t read your mind, help them and help yourself by letting go of the Holiday Martyr. Write down what you would like for a gift and give them your list. We ask our children to do this so that we at least have some idea. All they want to do is please you.
We start our Holiday Cruising Missions tomorrow. Our goal is to be ready for the holidays by Dec. 1. We are pretending that we are going on a Holiday Cruise that is going to last for three weeks. If we were really going on a cruise we would have to have everything ready for our departure. By getting everything done by Dec. 1, we are free to have fun and not be stressed out by the holidays.
Are you ready to enjoy the holidays for the first time ever?
For more help getting rid of your CHAOS, check out Marla Cilley’s website and join her free mentoring group at www.FlyLady.net, listen to her www.blogtalkradio.com/flylady show, or read her books, Sink Reflections, published by Bantam, and her New York Times bestselling book, Body Clutter, published by Fireside. Copyright 2009 Marla Cilley. Used by permission in this publication.
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